Have you ever ended up in a bad spot from helping people too much, so much that you hurt yourself by doing so? I have a problem. I don't know if I am just ignorant or just a glutten for punishment. I keep helping people and it keeps biting me in the ... . I find myself in a place in my life needing help but those that I have helped are nowhere to be found. I did not help them expecting anything in return but I thought I had friends at least. Nope.